Hi all — this is a bit of a long shot, but I recently came across a public post made by a person in the Seattle area who spoke out about a past relationship with a JB. What she described — emotional control, degradation, and a 24/7 “alternative lifestyle” dynamic that escalated into abuse — closely mirrors my own past experience with the same person.
I just want to say first and foremost: I believe you. Reading your post shook me because it confirmed that what I went through wasn’t isolated.
If you’re seeing this and feel safe reaching out, I’d really like to connect. I want to offer you support, no pressure or expectations. But I also want to be transparent: this man is now involved in a custody case, and I’m trying to ensure that a very young child is not exposed to the same kind of environment we were.
If you’re open to it, I’d love to talk to you about possibly writing a declaration that could help protect that child. You wouldn’t have to appear in court. It is just a signed statement of what you went through.
I completely understand if you’re not in a place to revisit that. Your well-being comes first. But know that your voice has already made a difference, and it could protect someone else from going through the same thing.
You can message me here on Reddit.
If you know who this person is, please show them.
Thank you.
~ A Survivor and Mom Trying to Protect Her Child
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