Dating in Seattle

I’m a 25YOF having the hardest time dating here. I’ve grown up here and damn is it hard to find anyone that wants any type of commitment. Given I don’t drink so I don’t spend a lot of time in bars, but lordy it’s like desolate wasteland. Someone help advise or anything 🤦‍♀️

Edit: I’m a 5’8 125lb woman. I model on the side, but work in the medical field. I like men, I’m monogamous and unfortunately have some chronic illnesses I fight through, but am completely functional. I have POTS and celiacs disease. My hobbies are surfing, playing video games with friends and hitting the gym.

2nd Edit: my dating history is poor, I’m a giver so I have a tendency to end up with takers and I don’t want that pattern to continue. I was going on dates with that guy that ended up murdering the homeless guy in west seattle and it scared me SHITLESS, he didn’t tell anyone and acted normal. I was off dating up until now since that.