To all Men out there who go to bars/night clubs. I’ve only ever had this happen to me in a club/bar atmosphere, and wondering if any of you have had this happen and what do you recommend? I’ve never ever had this happen ever in a regular environment, I am new to bar scene.
I had a situation where I was in the forum night club, very noisy, lots of alcohol, and I went up to approach a woman who had another women next to her. I did a pretty basic approach, nothing rude. I compliment and say she is beautiful and wanted to say hi, that’s it. The rude female friend (female next to her), then proceeds to put her hand out and push me away/hit my arm away, trying to barge in between me and the girl, and forcefully takes the girl and walks away. Technically “by the book”, this is a form of assault, since she put her hands on me and hit me. I never appreciate it when someone puts there hands on me.
When it happened I immediately reacted with a “whoa whoa” , and then they ran off.
What should I have done? What do I do if something like this happens again?
should I
A) keep my dignity and stand up for myself by hitting her back.
B) report this
C) confront in any other way?
D) just ignore and leave the situation
If a guy did this, there is no argument what you would do, but when its a female, I have no idea what to do. I never imagined I would be in situations in clubs where girls are being over protective by forcefully pushing men with their hands like that for only doing a respectful approach.
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